My friend, Susan drove to her boyfriend's house at 1 a.m in the night to check whether he was sleeping alone. Eerie... women do such things often. They cross check with their boyfriends/husbands to see whether they are not cheating on them.
When it comes to unfaithfulness in a relationship, the index finger is always pointed towards men for centuries. Women do commit adultery, but the percentage of this population seems to be very low in comparison to men. So men, many a times do not have a choice other than taking the labeled credit 'Cheater', irrespective of their faithful relationship. Find out the reason for all that suspicion. Why do women web themselves with this strange attitude that may be very annoying to their mate as well.
Biology of Men:
Most women believe that the biology of men is constituted in a way that they cannot think beyond sex in a relationship. They are in a constant fear of getting abandoned. So they hook on his every move without their notice and sometimes openly. It is not a surprise if she checks your office wear and bags when you are fast a sleep. She may even develop a close relationship with your colleague to get all the worthy inputs from him/her about you.
Movies and the Tele serials:
Many may not believe it, but its true. Movies and Tele serials do contribute to all the suspicious stares and questions. Women who are addicted to watch serials such as that of Ekta Kapoor's always land up asking questions like, why did you call her late night? Why do you go to bathroom to pick up that particular call and so on and so forth. Although these serials sometimes do add on to a family's healthy relationship.
Try this, if you are watching a movie alone in the night, if she asks, "Are you watching Sharukh's movie? She means I hope you are not sagging seeing those Bollywood hot babes. If she finds you chatting in the net, for a long time, she may ask, "Is your friend online?" She means I hope you are not fixing another date online? So, give no room for suspicion, if you are watching or chatting, do it together.
Bad history:
If men had a bad history of dating 2 or 3 women before marriage, then fishy net is more widened to catch them next time as soon as they fall. At the same time, women who have been through a sad saga of bad love relationship, knock into some other man's heart carefully. After getting inside they either believe them completely or scratch in every bit of dirt and sheet to check if he is true. However this suspicion is genuine and can be understood, as she is just being more careful this time.
Women believe when he is lying
Most women are caught up with a fact that their men are perfect, although they may be the most bragging tricksters. You often hear her saying " he is the best thing that ever happened to me". Women start believing their every lie, but that day they are caught every truth is judged as a false statement. Every thing he says is just another lie like the first one without a second thought. So, men if you lie do not get caught, once caught you will never be out of her suspicion web.
To end with a note of advice for women, there are two types of men in the world, one belong to the category of leaders and the other followers. Most leaders regard women as weaker beings and so assume a domineering role and impose their opinion on them. To the contrary followers are like the first child to their sweetheart who wish to be mothered all the time. So, there is still hope all men are not cheaters, so stop suspecting their every move. You never know your very act may make them get away from you.
When it comes to unfaithfulness in a relationship, the index finger is always pointed towards men for centuries. Women do commit adultery, but the percentage of this population seems to be very low in comparison to men. So men, many a times do not have a choice other than taking the labeled credit 'Cheater', irrespective of their faithful relationship. Find out the reason for all that suspicion. Why do women web themselves with this strange attitude that may be very annoying to their mate as well.
Biology of Men:
Most women believe that the biology of men is constituted in a way that they cannot think beyond sex in a relationship. They are in a constant fear of getting abandoned. So they hook on his every move without their notice and sometimes openly. It is not a surprise if she checks your office wear and bags when you are fast a sleep. She may even develop a close relationship with your colleague to get all the worthy inputs from him/her about you.
Movies and the Tele serials:
Many may not believe it, but its true. Movies and Tele serials do contribute to all the suspicious stares and questions. Women who are addicted to watch serials such as that of Ekta Kapoor's always land up asking questions like, why did you call her late night? Why do you go to bathroom to pick up that particular call and so on and so forth. Although these serials sometimes do add on to a family's healthy relationship.
Try this, if you are watching a movie alone in the night, if she asks, "Are you watching Sharukh's movie? She means I hope you are not sagging seeing those Bollywood hot babes. If she finds you chatting in the net, for a long time, she may ask, "Is your friend online?" She means I hope you are not fixing another date online? So, give no room for suspicion, if you are watching or chatting, do it together.
Bad history:
If men had a bad history of dating 2 or 3 women before marriage, then fishy net is more widened to catch them next time as soon as they fall. At the same time, women who have been through a sad saga of bad love relationship, knock into some other man's heart carefully. After getting inside they either believe them completely or scratch in every bit of dirt and sheet to check if he is true. However this suspicion is genuine and can be understood, as she is just being more careful this time.
Women believe when he is lying
Most women are caught up with a fact that their men are perfect, although they may be the most bragging tricksters. You often hear her saying " he is the best thing that ever happened to me". Women start believing their every lie, but that day they are caught every truth is judged as a false statement. Every thing he says is just another lie like the first one without a second thought. So, men if you lie do not get caught, once caught you will never be out of her suspicion web.
To end with a note of advice for women, there are two types of men in the world, one belong to the category of leaders and the other followers. Most leaders regard women as weaker beings and so assume a domineering role and impose their opinion on them. To the contrary followers are like the first child to their sweetheart who wish to be mothered all the time. So, there is still hope all men are not cheaters, so stop suspecting their every move. You never know your very act may make them get away from you.
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